| Since starting to educate T at home we discovered that after 8 and
a half years of school she had almost no knowledge of grammar or punctuation
and we have been working hard to rectify this. We discovered that
she had been taken out of English and Maths classes for her special
needs work which explains why she is so behind in both subjects. While
we agree that the special needs classes were very good for her, we
would have wished them to take place at a time that enabled her not
to miss such vital subjects as English and Maths. We are working through
several books to help her with grammar and punctuation and are making
considerable progress. Her knowledge of English has improved greatly
in the last few months. She does find Maths difficult which may be
in part due to other children laughing at her when she was at school
because she had not been able to do the work, again due to being taken
out for special needs classes. We discovered she did not know how
to add or subtract or divide or multiply. Therefore we have spent
a lot of time on addition, subtraction and division and multiplication
as we feel that it would be impossible for her to progress without
knowledge of the basics. We are also covering other mathematical topics.
As of this week she has broken through the fear barrier in Maths and
has realised she can do it. This I feel is a great achievement and
one that I hoped would occur, but did not expect it to for some time
Although T is dyslexic, she is an avid reader, probably getting
through ten or more books a week and we visit the library frequently.
When we go out for a day we always visit the library in whichever
town we may be. We have an extremely wide range of books at home
covering almost every subject, also many encyclopaedias, textbooks
and workbooks. We have a wide selection of videos, DVD’s,
CD’s and tapes, both musical (covering almost all types of
music) and story. She has access to the Internet whenever she wishes
and has discovered that her typing has improved greatly and I am
currently teaching her IT. She has a great love of history which
we are encouraging and she is collecting the horrible history magazines
which she looks forward to receiving fortnightly. She has spent
several months making a very involved family tree of the Royal Family
from the Tudors down and has just reached George VII. As she is
writing details of each person’s life and events in their
life this has given her an understanding of historical, geographical
and scientific events at the time.
T plays football with her friends from school, swims frequently
and enjoys walking. She is teaching herself calligraphy, which,
given her dyslexia and coordination problems, is quite a challenge
and is also involved in glasspainting and makes jewellery. She has
expressed an interest in soapmaking and currently is finding out
details of ingredients needed. She also enjoys cooking. She has
begun a book detailing days out with photos, postcards and newspaper
cuttings. She also draws paints and writes poetry.
We feel that learning is ongoing, twenty-four hours a day, seven
days a week and so do not work to a timetable. We feel that timetables
are necessary in schools where there is such a limited time to learn,
but not needed at home where there is no time restriction. It is
difficult to say how long is spent on each subject as so many run
together that we could not say where one ends and the next one begins.
If she shows an interest we nurture that by finding books, videos
and other resources on whatever it might be so as to find out all
that we can. We have received many free resources via the Internet
such as NASA, PETA, North American Indians, English Nature, Anglesey
Seal Life Centre to mention just a few and she is studying these
avidly.
We have four teachers in the immediate family and many of our friends
and neighbours are also teachers and all have indicated that they
are willing and able to help with anything I may not be able to
do myself, and they have been a constant support to us. Her father
has backed us up all the way with home education and is a great
source of encouragement. Many of our friends have taken it on themselves
to encourage her and are helping her learn about the environment,
local history and geography, gardening and childcare and many other
things. They have all said how much she has changed, for the better,
since being home.
Regarding socialisation, she attends a group on alternate Fridays
for children who have had problems such as bullying at school, and
another group on alternate Thursdays for teenagers with learning
disabilities. She enjoys these greatly and both groups have taken
her on trips which have included many days out in the summer, bowling,
Evita and most recently was taken to see “The Stomp”
in London. She has a lot of contact with other home educated children
and often meets her old friends from school and stays with them,
and of course has them to stay with her. She has far more contact
with friends now than she did before. She has a wide circle of friend
whose ages vary from 1 to over 80. She is slowly getting her confidence
back and since being home her health has improved immeasurably.
We have a “museum day” approximately once a month when
we visit museums, in London, other towns and here at home. So far
we have visited Maidstone Museum many times, our local Museum, the
Imperial War Museum (the holocaust exhibition was of particular
interest to her) and the Victoria and Albert Museum. We have also
visited Brighton, Southampton, Hastings, Folkestone, Ashford, Rye,
Dover and Guernsey where she spent a week learning about the islands
heritage (especially the German Occupation as her grandfather was
there at the time), history and geography from family members. She
is very interested in WW2 and has been to an exhibition about Anne
Frank, and has read many books on the subject. We have visited the
Earth from the Air exhibition at the National Geographical Museum
and enjoyed it so much we purchased the book about it and check
the picture for each day daily. Next week we are meeting other home
educators from across the country at the Natural History Museum
in London. Last week we met up with some other local home educators
for the Stop the War march and rally in London. We are planning
to visit Dover Castle and the Wartime Tunnels in the spring and
also Battle Abbey.
As a family we find home education to be extremely rewarding and
are grateful that we are able to do this for T. Our only regret
is that we did not do it sooner.
HE versus school - the pros and cons
T’s comments
I want to learn properly at home. I want one to one help that they
couldn’t give me properly at school. I want to learn maths
with help. I don’t want to be bullied any more. I just want
to do history most. I feel happy that I am no longer at school.
My comments
T will learn on a one to one basis. We will go back to about year
3 or 4 in maths and start again at the beginning as the basics have
to be understood thoroughly before the rest can be understood. The
same applies with spelling. She will also become proficient in typing
and other IT related aspects. She will work to the highest standard
that she is capable of.
Home Education – The Pros and Cons
1 No bullying
Can be lonely
2 Only one teacher
You miss other teachers
3 No crowded classrooms
You miss other people
4 You can spend more time on the subjects you are most like
You don’t have the chance to research with your friends
5 You do the work you like
You don’t learn new subjects
6 You don’t fall out with your friends
You don’t make new friends
7 No school uniform
Wear and tear on home clothes
8 Work can be done any time of day, any day of the week
No more school holidays
9 You can concentrate better so the quality of work improves
No one else to compare your work with
10 If you feel ill, the work can still be done later in the day
If you work at home you cannot get away from it when you are ill
11 No more homework
Work will always be at home
12 Days out for educational purposes
No more school trips
13 You have your mum as a teacher
You might not like your mum
1 No bullying any more. No more being hit, no more being pushed,
no more threats. It says it all doesn’t it. It can be lonely,
but only if you want it to be. You can still see your friends after
school, phone them, and go to SNAP discos with them. You just won’t
be with them all day every day.
2 Only one teacher. Yes, that is true, and I am not qualified,
but we do have a vast selection of books available to us, the internet,
libraries and a lot of teachers among family and friends. What we
don’t know we will find out.
3 No more crowded classroom trying to get a teachers attention
when you don’t understand or you need help No more work destroyed
by other pupils. Yes, you will miss other people when learning at
home, but you will have my attention all the time, what you don’t
understand will be explained until you do understand and you will
not have your work destroyed by others any more.
4 This covers 5 as well. You will do the work you like, and we
will discuss what subjects we are covering and choose the topics
that interest us. For example history can also cover religion, english,
geography, geology, natural history, french and latin, science,
IT and many other categories. Leaning no longer has to be compartmentalised
into a particular subject. Rather, a topic can touch on aspects
of many different subjects which in themselves will lead to learning
about more and more. Therefore, you will be learning many new subjects
on a more varied basis.
5 As explained above.
6 You don’t fall out with your friends as you won’t
see so much of them. They can still come round when they want, you
can still have sleepovers and go out with them. You will make new
friends. We still have to find out who in this area is also educated
at home and you may make friends that way.
7 A shame because it offers a sense of belonging . However, no
more falling down tights.
8 We can work when it suits us best – mornings and/or afternoons
and/or evenings. If you are enjoying what you are doing, then you
do not have to pack up after 40 or 50 minutes, but can carry on
for as long as you want. School holidays do not apply in the traditional
sense. Obviously this is the best time to see your school educated
friends, but holidays can be taken when it is best for us, and work
can and will be done in school holidays as well as term time.
9 A difficult one. It does help to have someone to compare work
with and to see how well you are doing compared to them, but there
will be no distractions as there would be in school and when we
find a local
group of people we can compare with them.
10 Obviously if you are feeling ill, then you would not be working
in the traditional sense, but discussions can still happen, books
can be read, videos can be watched, and computers can be used.
11 No more homework. True, but all work will be homework i.e. work
done at home.
12 We will have days out for educational purposes visiting museums
etcetera. You will possibly learn more as you will be able to go
round at your own speed and concentrate on the things that really
interest you.
13 Yes, you have me as your teacher, and there is no getting away
from that.
10 months later she has realised that some of these things don't
matter or no longer apply, and that her social life is 10 times
better than it was before.
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